When it comes to parenting, the struggle is real.
And by “real,” we mean frustrating, exhausting, and lonely.Â
At some point in your parenting journey, you’ve probably asked yourself at least one (or all) of these questions:
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Why is everything a battle with my child? How can I get cooperation without constant conflict?
What do I do when my child bites, kicks, hits, or has a meltdown in public?
Why does my child prefer my spouse over me? Am I doing something wrong?
How do I get my kids to stop fighting all the time and actually get along?
Why won't my child ever listen until I’ve repeated myself a million times?
I don’t want to yell, bribe, or threaten—but what else can I do?
Imagine if Family Life felt Easier, Calmer, and More Connected.
What if you could finally parent with confidence, handle your child’s most challenging behaviors with grace, and actually enjoy your time together as a family?
Welcome to the CALMER Parenting Program!
a nurturing coaching community designed to support you through the ups and downs of parenting.
This isn’t about perfect parenting (spoiler: there’s no such thing!). Instead, we help you navigate the challenges of parenting with greater ease, understanding, and self-assurance.Â
With guidance from experienced coaches who are also parents, you’ll discover research-backed strategies to manage your own emotions and respond to your child with calm, confidence, and genuine connection, even in the toughest moments.
You’ll know how to regulate your emotions in a way that’s rooted in calmness and confidence, so that you can deal with even your child’s worst behavior in a way that brings you two closer together.
What are the CALMER Parenting Principles?
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Developed by Dr. Katherine Endy through her doctoral dissertation research, the CALMER Parenting Principles offer a transformative approach to managing challenging behaviors in young children. Each principle is designed to help parents move from a place of stress and frustration to one of calm, confidence, and connection.
Together, these principles empower parents to handle their child’s toughest behaviors with greater ease, reducing stress and bringing more joy and connection into daily family life.
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Here’s what Anissa and Phil had to say about how CALMER changed family life, helping them go from feeling guilt and shame to feeling like they are supporting their son. They feel less drained and more connected.
Whether you’re parenting a spirited toddler, a neurodivergent child, or siblings who just can’t get along,
CALMER meets you where you are. You’ll learn how to connect deeply, communicate effectively, and create lasting positive changes in your family dynamic.
And the best part? The CALMER principles are simple to learn and easy to implement. In fact, 100% of our participants report that CALMER has not only improved their parenting skills but also transformed their family life.
By mastering skills like connection, listening, and emotional regulation, you can:
- Reduce parenting stress and burnout.
- Break the cycle of yelling, bribing, and punishing.
- Respond to challenging behavior with calm and confidence.
- Strengthen your bond with your child, even in the toughest moments.
CALMERÂ Saves Time
CALMER helped Jordan AND his son feel less stressed. Practicing CALMER also saved time!
Parents who have participated in CALMER report:
More Peaceful Mornings and Bedtimes: Parents will have strategies to create smoother routines, reducing conflicts and power struggles during these often stressful times of day.
Responding Instead of Reacting: Parents will learn to pause and respond thoughtfully to their child's behavior rather than reacting impulsively with yelling, threats, or punishment.
Better Emotional Regulation: Parents will have tools to calm themselves during moments of stress, helping them model healthy emotional regulation for their kids.
Less Arguing and More Listening: Instead of constant battles, parents will notice more cooperation and mutual respect in their interactions with their children.
Feeling Supported by a Community: They’ll be connected to other like-minded parents who understand their struggles, reducing feelings of isolation.
Easier Transitions (e.g., Leaving the House, Screen Time Limits): Parents will develop tools that make transitions less chaotic and more predictable.
100% of CALMER parents report a significant decrease in parenting-related stress!
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In short, CALMER works!
When are the coaching calls?
Can my partner join, too?
How big is the group?
Is CALMER appropriate for parents of older kids?
I’ve read a lot of parenting books. What if I already know everything you’re going to teach?
How long does it take to implement these principles?
Parenting advice can feel overwhelming, and it often leaves you feeling like you’re falling short.
CALMER Is Different: It’s Not Just Another Parenting Course, It’s a Lifeline.
The CALMER Parenting Program isn’t just another parenting course—it’s lifeline for overwhelmed parents. Our unique approach isn’t about quick fixes or one-size-fits-all advice. Instead, we teach universal principles that work for every family, regardless of your child’s age, temperament, or needs.
Yes, there are recorded lessons, but this is not just another online course you'll never use. In fact, the core of the program is LIVE COACHING CALLS in which you will be coached and supported on your specific parenting issue or struggle.
Our coaches support you in implementing the CALMER Parenting Principles as a foundation of a more peaceful family life.Â
Whether you’re dealing with a strong-willed toddler, a neurodivergent child, or siblings who just won’t stop fighting, CALMER teaches core principles that are flexible enough to work in any situation.
If you're thinking about signing up for The CALMER Program...
Ready to Make a Change? Let’s Do This Together.
Don’t spend another day feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from your child. The CALMER Parenting Program is here to guide you every step of the way—and you don’t have to do it alone.
